Proverbial


A proverb that suggests a poor workman tends to look for an excuse for his poor work.

It was really Andy’s fault that the wall he built fell down but he tried to claim that the cement mixer was faulty.

The expression is found in British collections of proverbs from the 16th century.

Worldwide, but less commonly than 50 years ago.


It’s better to have a lesser but certain advantage than the possibility of a greater one that may come to nothing.

The questions in the final round looked hard so we opted out of the big prize and took the smaller $2,000 second prize. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush you know.

The United Kingdom.

One of the most widely used proverbs throughout the English-speaking world.


A foolish person is very likely to lose his money.

He’s off to the casino again – ’a fool and his money…’ I say.

The United Kingdom – 16th century.

Worldwide.


Money always has a telling influence.

He’s not really good enough to be an F1 driver but he got in the team because he brought a major sponsorship deal with him. As they say, a golden key can open any door.

The United Kingdom.

Worldwide, but somewhat uncommon.


Failure is certain if those on the same side argue amongst themselves.

The Tory party can’t stop arguing over Europe. Don’t they know that a house divided cannot stand.

Biblical.

Widespread but uncommon. Rather formal for everyday speech.


You cannot change your innate self.

He was a bully at school and he’s a bully now – a leopard can’t change its spots.

Biblical.

Widespread but rather formal form of expression. Not widely used by the young.


Some endeavours either succeed or they don’t – to miss narrowly is still failure.

He came within a millimetre of breaking the high jump records. Sadly, a miss is as good as a mile.

USA.

Worldwide.


Old proverb suggesting that children should not impinge on the adult world.

Grandma is a bit strict. We shouldn’t judge her though – things were tougher in her childhood. She was expected to be seen and not heard.

Britain.

Rarely used seriously any longer. Now more likely be heard in black and white movies than in real life.


Being inquisitive can lead you into a dangerous situation.

I heard a noise outside and went to have a look. It turns out I should have ignored it, it was a bear. Curiosity killed the cat they say.

USA, late 19th century. Probably deriving from a much older British phrase – ‘care killed the cat’.

Worldwide.


Don’t hurt someone that helps you.

Shouting at the people who are offering you somewhere to stay isn’t a good plan. Have you never heard of the proverb Don’t bite the hand that feeds you?

Worldwide.


Don’t count on receiving some benefit until you actually have it.

I know you felt good about that exam, but you haven’t passed until you get the result – don’t count your chickens.

Britain, 16th century proverb.

Worldwide.


Don’t fret pointlessly about some mistake or loss when it can’t be remedied.

Well, the vase is smashed. There’s no point crying over spilt milk.

Britain, 17th century proverb.

Worldwide.


When you receive a gift accept it with good grace and don’t find fault with it.

I gave her a $700 phone and she said it wasn’t the right colour. Talk about looking a gift horse in the mouth!

Britain, 16th century proverb.

Worldwide.


Don’t risk all your property on a single venture.

Well, that horse is a good runner but I wouldn’t bet all your money on it to win. That would be putting all your eggs into one basket.

Britain, 16th century proverb, from an Italian original.

Worldwide.


allow someone a small concession and they will take advantage and try to take more.

Give Janice and inch and shell take a mile. We said she could stay in the spare room for a couple of nights but she’s been here a month already.

USA, 19th century. First seen in the journals of Ralph Waldo Emerson.

Worldwide.


Remain positive in a tough situation.

Sorry to hear that you were made redundant on the day your buried your mother. Keep your chin up mate.

USA, late 19th century.

Although derived in the USA this idiom is more commonly heard now in Britain.


Allow a disagreement or argument to be put in the past.

I never thought I’d be saying this after you slept with my wife, but that was thirty years ago, let’s let bygones be bygones.

Britain, 16th century proverb

Worldwide.


Avoid restarting a conflict.

I knew he was stealing from me but, he is proud and he really needs the money. I preferred to let sleeping dogs lie and to say nothing.

Britain. 19th century but much earlier as a similarly-worded proverb.

Worldwide, but like many proverbs, now considered rather old-fashioned.


You can encourage someone to to do something but, in the end, what they do is their own choice.

I bought her a car; I even paid for the driving lessons, but she still travels everywhere by bus.

Britain, 12th century. One of the oldest proverbs in the English language

Worldwide.


Once animals (and people) are set in their ways they struggle to assimilate new ideas.

I tried to learn Mandarin after I retired but I got nowhere with it. I guess you can’t teach an old dog new tricks.

Britain, 16th century proverb. One of the oldest proverbs in English.

Worldwide, but like many proverbs, now mostly used by the older generation.

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Gary Martin

Writer and researcher on the origins of phrases and the creator of the Phrase Finder website. Over the past 26 years more than 700 million of his pages have been downloaded by readers. He is one of the most popular and trusted sources of information on phrases and idioms.