Happiness


An apparent misfortune that works to the eventual benefit of the recipient.

Breaking my arm was a blessing in disguise. I married the nurse.

The United Kingdom.

Widely used.


An idealistic dream of a sunny hideaway.

We’ve been lucky, we managed to buy ourselves a place in the sun for our retirement.

The United Kingdom, early 20th century. An allusion to a literal pleasant retirement location.

Worldwide, not not common.


A welcome sight that you weren’t expecting.

Wow. You’re a sight for sore eyes. They told me you were abroad and would miss my wedding.

The United Kingdom – 18th century.

Worldwide.


1. Very high up in the sky. 2. High on drugs or excitement.

1. The Petronas Tower is as high as a kite. 2. She was ecstatic that she won the gold medal. She was high as a kite afterwards.

1. Britain – 17th century. It probably refers to Red Kites, birds that were common in the UK in the 17th century, rather than children’s kites. 2. USA.

1. In the UK. 2. Worldwide.


A bittersweet feeling combining both happiness and sadness.

Dad won the Bafta for best actor but was too ill to collect it, so I’m happy sad about that.

Britain, 19th century.

Worldwide, but not commonly used.


Very excited, especially when in love.

She said yes! We are to be married and I’m head over heels.

Britain, 18th century.

Worldwide.


A toast given to someone on their birthday.

The old fella is 80 today – many happy returns Grandad.

Britain, 18th century.

Worldwide. This idiom has to have a claim for being spoken by more people more frequently than any other in the language.


Blissfully happy.

The day after George proposed to her, Mildred won the lottery. She’s on cloud nine.

USA, 20th century.

Worldwide.


Time spent with a child, spouse or friend in an uninterrupted and attentive way.

I’ve been working 12 hours a day this week and haven’t been home once for the toddler’s bedtime. This weekend I’m going to give them some quality time and take them to the zoo

USA, 20th century.

Worldwide.


A significant, important or happy day.

Mom will be a hundred years old on the 23rd. That’s a real red-letter day for the family.

Britain – 15th century.

Worldwide.

Gary Martin is a writer and researcher on the origins of phrases and the creator of the Phrase Finder website. Over the past 26 years more than 700 million of his pages have been downloaded by readers. He is one of the most popular and trusted sources of information on phrases and idioms.

Gary Martin

Writer and researcher on the origins of phrases and the creator of the Phrase Finder website. Over the past 26 years more than 700 million of his pages have been downloaded by readers. He is one of the most popular and trusted sources of information on phrases and idioms.