Relaxation


A work day which an employee is allowed to spend at home relaxing.

We’d all worked so hard getting the latest design out on time the boss rewarded us with a duvet day to do whatever we wanted.

Britain, 1990s.

Worldwide.


A shed or some other retreat that men decorate in the way they choose (with or without their male friends) and use to relax in traditional male pursuits.

After I retired Sheila was getting so fed up with me being around the house that she made me turn the outhouse into a man cave. Now the guys come round each afternoon to play cards and watch tv and I’ve made a sculpture out of beer cans.

USA, late 20th century.

Worldwide. A fairly recent coinage but spreading rapidly around the world.


Take a break from one’s efforts.

You did well to get this far in the marathon before collapsing. Rest up now and wait for the paramedics to get here.

USA, 19th century.

Worldwide.


Relax in a slothful manner, usually watching tv while lying on a sofa – (that is, become a ‘couch-potato’).

Such a stressful time at work this week. Come Friday night all I was good for was to veg out binge watching Friends.

Britain, late 20th century.

Worldwide, but most commonly restricted to the under 40s.

Gary Martin is a writer and researcher on the origins of phrases and the creator of the Phrase Finder website. Over the past 26 years more than 700 million of his pages have been downloaded by readers. He is one of the most popular and trusted sources of information on phrases and idioms.

Gary Martin

Writer and researcher on the origins of phrases and the creator of the Phrase Finder website. Over the past 26 years more than 700 million of his pages have been downloaded by readers. He is one of the most popular and trusted sources of information on phrases and idioms.