I will wear a red dress to your funeral

Has anyone ever heard of the phrase "I will wear a red dress to your funeral"?

Nope. Does it mean the same as, "I'll dance on your grave"?

Moonstruck: Joe versus the volcano ; and, Five corners : screenplaysý - Page 109
by John Patrick Shanley - Performing Arts - 1996 - 338 pages

but coomon in literature to the 1880's-1920's and still...

Moonstruck

I've got your ring here! MR. JOHNNY: I must ask for that back. ... you will drop
dead, and I will come to your funeral in a red dress! RONNY: Loretta? ...