In Reply to: Eating Chinese style posted by Victoria on May 04, 2009 at 18:49:
: Is anyone familiar with the phrase "eating Chinese style"? I learned it from my mother, who was born and raised in California. It was not meant to be derogatory. It simply meant eating dessert first, before the meal. Does anyone know the origin of this phrase? I'd appreciate knowing since all of my family is deceased.
I was also born and raised in California, and I've never heard this expression. I've heard "an upside-down dinner," also from a native Californian, for the dessert-first sequence. Although derogation wasn't intended, I think it's there, in a subtle way, because "Chinese style" for doing something backward suggests the old American stereotype of the Chinese as inscrutable and having peculiar customs. ~rb