Marry in haste, repent at leisure


What's the meaning of the phrase 'Marry in haste, repent at leisure'?

Literal meaning.

What's the origin of the phrase 'Marry in haste, repent at leisure'?

This proverbial saying was first expressed in print by William Congreve in his comedy of manners The Old Batchelour, 1693:

Thus grief still treads upon the heels of pleasure:
Married in haste, we may repent at leisure.

Congreve took his lead from Shakespeare who had previously coined who wooed in haste, and means to wed at leisure, which conveys much the same idea.

Both authors were expressing the notion that, while courtships and weddings are brief, marriages are longlasting – giving plenty of time to muse on the wisdom of a rushed alliance.

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Gary Martin

Writer and researcher on the origins of phrases and the creator of the Phrase Finder website. Over the past 26 years more than 700 million of his pages have been downloaded by readers. He is one of the most popular and trusted sources of information on phrases and idioms.