Posted by Bella on June 02, 2003
In Reply to: "Be all and end all" posted by ESC on June 02, 2003
: : : Is this an American phrase or does it have origins in Britain? What is its most accepted meaning?
: : Britain.
: : BE-ALL AND END-ALL - "The dominant factor. In Shakespeare's 'Macbeth' the first act describes a plot by Macbeth and his wife to assassinate King Duncan of Scotland so Macbeth can become king. Soliloquizing on the scheme, Macbeth says: If it were done when 'tis done, then 'twere well it were done quickly: if the assassination could trammel up the consequence, and catch, with his surcease, success; that but this blow might be the be-all and end-all here.'" From the "Dictionary of Cliches" by James Rogers (Ballantine Books, New York, 1985).
: The definition needs a little work. I have heard the phrase used to describe someone with an inflated sense of importance. "He thinks he is the be-all end-all. He thinks he's 'all that and a bag of chips.'"
My Scots-raised mother sometimes uses the phrase, usually to refer to someone or something being "the limit", the absolute ultimate on whatever is being discussed, so I have grown up with this saying, and only occasionally hear other Americans using it, and personally I love the added twist of "all that and a bag of chips"!
Another variation on this, when it is a person who thinks he/she is just "the most", is "God's gift", as in thinking oneself God's gift to the opposite sex.